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Originally Posted by Therapy reviewed
I think for some just having a space to talk will be enough for them. The silent other doesn't always mean they aren't actively listening.
The fidgeting. Now that would annoy me. More than the silence - though my T was silent a lot but not empty silent - as I have cptsd T would seldom move and if she did, say to cross a leg she would do it almost in slow motion.
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The person just sitting there listening approach has never worked for me what's so ever as I know myself so I know what works for me. If I wanted someone like this sure Id just pop around to my neighbour for a cup of coffee. It probably works for some people but it just isn't what I need at this moment in time. I have serious issues that is the main resulted from early childhood development but your advice much appreciated
