Struggling today. I'm questioning a lot.

My kids' counselors advised them they are better off with me and to put up strong boundaries with their mother.

So, I talked today about behaviors and words that were really concerning from mom.

In my mind, my wife's accusations that I manipulated the kids and drove them away from her, that I drove her out of our home, and that I spoke to the kids about things that belonged between us, and built a financial plan with our oldest instead of her are all ringing loudly.

This is always the issue... the partial truth, or the truth without context, and never any blame on her part.

I feel so much guilt and am questioning a lot this evening.