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Old Mar 19, 2023, 12:15 PM
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So, I have a problem. I don't know if I am rebounding?????? I am already pretty into this new guy I met. And I want to hear from him more than I do... as though I am already kind of addicted to our communications, when they do occur. We chat every day by text, not big conversations, all small talk and what are you up to kind of thing. We've shared some photos of our lives back and forth. He says good morning by text every day, and good night by text almost every day. I enjoy our chit chatting, and I've enjoyed his company so far. But I feel myself getting ahead of myself... like steps ahead, and not wanting to take it too slowly. I get excited about seeing him again, and about getting to hang out with him again. He gives me butterflies.. am I falling for this guy????? One really awesome thing about him - he loves adventures and outdoor activities, just like I do - he will be sailing from Guadalupe to Grenada with his cousin soon for 7-10 days. He's helping his cousin move his boat to Grenada. I think that's pretty freaking cool..... and he wants to go skiing with me soon, and we've talked about roller blading together and kayaking.. all things I love! It's the opposite of my husband, and I am loving that. And he seems to have my best interests in mind, too. Like he's got my back and is looking out for me. I like that, too. Hmmmmm.... it's been six months since my husband moved out, and more than that since we separated. I just don't want to be rebounding, but I feel I have done a ton of healing & moving on already... we will go for hours without speaking or texting, and I want more ... I have to slow myself down and really get to know this guy and his character.
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