Lori, I can hear the desperation in your words. I'm sorry that you are going through this for so long and even though you have had numerous tests they still have not found out what is causing your spells. I can just imagine your frustration and also wanting to give up because of it. It sounds like David is very frustrated too but he is behaving very inappropriately. He should be giving you a lot more support and not discussing any of this in front of the kids. I would check into the suggestion that sqrl gave you. I know there is a town near where I live that was really affected by something in their water source. I don't understand why David refuses to go to your appts yet continues to belittle you and accuse you of giving in to your situation. I agree with ozzie that he needs some anger management therapy. Of course, that may not be so easy to accomplish since he won't even go to your appts. It sounds like you are doing everything possible to try to find the cause, so I'm not sure I can really offer you any advice and I know that's what you're really looking for. I'm sorry that my knowledge doesn't afford me to do so. I will offer you my support though. Welcome to the site and please keep talking to us. You won't be alone, we will support you. You posted in the bi-polar section. Are you BP? Are you seeing a pdoc and on meds for it and are you in therapy. You didn't mention that I recall if your gynecologist has found anything. Try to think positive. I know that's very hard. My own meds don't help me much, other than keep me alive and there are times that they don't help much for that. So, I know how frustrating things can be. I hope you find some concrete answers soon and can find some relief. Sending you love and hugs sweetie. Sounds like you could use them. Please keep posting and let us know how you are doing. ((((((Lori))))))))))