He just runs his mouth and plays games. Also everything what he says is a cliche. “I don’t want to let you down because I care so much, so that’s why I don’t have relationship with you”. That’s verbatim from a player’s book.

And really parent of a toddler shouldn’t have any time for dating let alone playing games with women. He got so lucky having access to his child and he wastes his days getting high and playing Don Juan with innocent women. What a loser. That’s not how decent men behave. He needs to work and take care of a child and work on his sobriety, not waste his days on games

And honestly I dated some losers myself. But smoking weed while taking care of a toddler ALONE with no other person to help is crossing every imaginable boundary for me. That’s all time low. What would he do in emergency??? Imagine you had kids with this bozo and he’d be getting high while a toddler or an infant is in his care and you are at work.

Count your blessings. You do not need a man like that at all.