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Originally Posted by divine1966
It’s possibly you are on rebound or just lonely plus stressed about job. It’s possible. But he might be a great guy too. Personally dating on rebound never ever worked for me.
You don’t really know him on any meaningful level. He might be the best man alive but you don’t know him yet. Skiing or sailing doesn’t say anything about him as a person.
Anyone can text sweet nothings. And butterflies… Well you can feel those for very wrong people too
Do you two talk about anything meaningful? Does he have depth to him? Do you know anything about his life? What he does for a living? Divorced? Single? Does he know you just got divorced less than a week ago?
At the moment you have more free time than him as you don’t work. Having lots of free time explains you wanting more texts or calls. Does he work? In many jobs you absolutely cannot text or call during the day. Going hours without speaking or texting is a normal life occurrence. People work and have obligations. Hopefully when you get a job you won’t be as preoccupied with a guy and will slow down
Who really knows. He might be dream comes true. You just need to get to know him better.
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I missed this post yesterday. Yes, we do talk about meaningful things. He has told me all about his own divorce, which happened 5 years ago. He is 49, divorced with one 11 year-old child. He makes a living, but I am not sure how good of a living. He manages properties and does a bunch of odd jobs too.
It could just be a fling. He talks about wanting to move to the Caribbean, where it's far warmer. His son and ex wife live in Florida. Don't ask me why they live there instead of near him.. I need to ask him this.
He likes to drive, so he drives puppies to their new owners to make extra money. Right now he is driving to Kentucky from New York and back. His good friend breeds puppies, terriers, and he's helping him out.
Last night he called me and he talked again about wanting to move to the Caribbean. His sailing trip is a bit of a recon mission he said, to look into this. He has a motor boat and likes to water ski in the summer.
Yeah, I mean, it's a bit too soon to say, but I could be barking up the wrong tree for anything long-term with this guy. That's very possible. I think I need to back up and take precautions.... I don't want to get hurt.