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Old Mar 20, 2023, 04:18 AM
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Originally Posted by smile1217 View Post
I think I feel like I treated HIM like crap though & that’s what’s bothering me
How so?? You have to get past that part - you likely were REACTING to how poorly he treats YOU. This self blame serves no purpose. It is clouding you from seeing him realistically as an abuser and someone to steer clear of.
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