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Old Mar 20, 2023, 04:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
How so?? You have to get past that part - you likely were REACTING to how poorly he treats YOU. This self blame serves no purpose. It is clouding you from seeing him realistically as an abuser and someone to steer clear of.
Exactly. That’s what abusers do. Treat you badly but when you react, shift the blame on you labeling you an abuser when really what you do is just react.
Thanks for this!
Have Hope