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Old Mar 20, 2023, 04:26 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Exactly. That’s what abusers do. Treat you badly but when you react, shift the blame on you labeling you an abuser when really what you do is just react.
Yep - and then the true abuser gets a person to doubt their perceptions and sense of reality because they accept the blame.
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Thanks for this!
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