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Old Mar 20, 2023, 10:32 AM
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You know yourself better.

If you think you can just have short term fun and then move on, then it’s all good. But I’d say if you already want to talk to him more, then maybe it’s not that simple. We are at age when we know what works for us. “Have fun and see where it goes” never really worked for me. I am either in or I am out. I have no time for other stuff. And if I am just lonely or bored or want a companion, then it doesn’t need to be a man. Social hobby groups and girlfriends is a better fit for me.

If casual dating is something that suits you, then why not. I think you should do what feels authentic. But don’t date him out of boredom and loneliness. It never works

If you end up getting hurt, then you’d need a new guy to help with the hurt from this guy. It’s never ending cycles then. But these are all just speculations. You know what works for you
Thanks for this!
Have Hope, Molinit