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Originally Posted by Have Hope
How so?? You have to get past that part - you likely were REACTING to how poorly he treats YOU. This self blame serves no purpose. It is clouding you from seeing him realistically as an abuser and someone to steer clear of.
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I know I’m working on getting past it & feeling like the bad guy in the situation…looking back I realize that even if he wasn’t actively abusing me in that moment I reacted, it was out of confusion & hurt that he built expectations in my head & then would snatch them away & build them up & so on so I was never settled