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Old Mar 21, 2023, 04:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Samicat View Post
To be honest I'm seeing some red flags when you talk about this guy. He manages properties (how? does he work for a management company?) but also needs to do odd jobs and drive puppies to their new owners to make extra money? He's available for texting during the day? He's talking about relocating his cousin's sailboat and talking about moving to the Caribbean? He sounds like a smooth operator. Just because he appears to have a lavish lifestyle doesn't mean he is actually well off or even financially secure. I hope I'm wrong but I would be SO careful with this guy.
He doesn't come across at all to me like a smooth operator. I think he's in a transitional spot in life himself. He quit his property management job of 20 years 1 year ago. So, he's doing his own thing now to make ends meet, which yes, could be a red flag, I suppose. I don't think he's financially well off, but he's making ends meet and is doing what is necessary to do so.

I will be careful... I am definitely cautious....
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