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Old Mar 21, 2023, 06:00 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I don’t believe in exclusivity after few dates either. If I intend to sleep together then it’s a bit different though. If I feel it’s too soon to ask if he sleeps with other people, then it’s too much too soon for me to be intimate. People ask these questions all the time. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and spook a man. If he is the right man, he’d not be scared but in fact would welcome frank conversation

Good luck. It might all work out really well. It’s just the last thing you need another disappointment and heartache from a man
I agree - the last thing I need is disappointment and heartache. I am backing up now emotionally and am being far more cautious about him. I am not sure how to approach the conversation about monogamy.....
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