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Originally Posted by SlumberKitty
Ergh.
Now I feel a little guilty telling my T I was absurdly annoyed!
Although therapy is supposed to be that "safe space" where you can say anything you want. I'm just not used to asserting myself. And to also be like getting used to telling a T when I have a problem (even a small one) with what they have done or not done. I should have done that with my last T and I am not wanting to make the same mistakes.
I do kinda feel like a jerk now.
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SlumberKitty, I struggle with this too. MyT says I can say anything to her about any topic, but challenging her on things to do with the relationship, or something she says or does that I'm not happy about is really difficult.
You've only just started working with this T, so don't beat yourself up about it. As your confidence in the relationship grows, hopefully you'll will find it easier to address things with her.
Well that's the theory anyway... I've been with current T for over a year now and I still find it hard!
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