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Originally Posted by TheGal
From what I know of your story, it wasn't your fault. You were in an abusive relationship and it was the other person. So the guilt doesn't belong to you.
As for the grief you feel, sometimes we never get over that.
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I'd just come out of the abusive relationship when i got my angel Ebony
in the abusive relationship i had my snugglebug Dylan, who when i got away from creepazoid, Mum's then-husband didnt want a cat so the choice he gave was we find Dylan a new home or he'd throw him out onto the streets
it was when i got away from that house that i got Ebony
Had I known at the time how close i was to getting away and being in a position to have a cat still, i would of tried to get him into a temporary home then got him back
it was too late by the time i knew i could get a cat again, Dylan was in a new home but he then went missing, i never knew if he was ever found or if he'd got territorial towards a vehicle again and got hit by a car or lorry or whatever, or even a train cause the people who took him was near a railway station

i did say to them he had no road sense so to supervise him when he was learning his new territory