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Originally Posted by Pontepunto
Personally I would not tell her I was digging so deep into her family members' social media. She might feel threatened and react badly. If I were you I would maybe bring it up in general at one point that you feel you have a problematic way of googling and then feeling bad. I would just try not to carry on doing it and finding new info and forget about this instance and not bring it up, as it is highly personal. Maybe you could block her yourself to avoid the temptation to search again?
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Yes, I have banned myself from looking at T, ex T's and their family members' social media accounts but I know it is going to be hard and not being able to talk about this issue with T is going to make it harder. I think I may bring it up in a more general sense but not tell her that I found this particular piece of information. I don't know, I will see how I feel about it in the session but I worry not talking about it at all is going negatively impact my ability to engage in the therapy which is already a bit of a problem for me for various reasons.