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Originally Posted by divine1966
I get not wanting to spend money on driving. Then when he drives to your area, maybe you two can do some dating in your area. I don’t know, it’s just a good indication of man’s interest if he actually wants to do more than sleeping together or have you riding along with his buddies. I’d be a bit apprehensive that when it’s not bedroom activity it’s always with other people (and he’s not even acts as you two are there together) and the only time it’s two of you it involves sleeping together. Not saying he has some less than honorable intentions, but is he actually dating you?
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It's only been a couple weeks so far, so I don't know what to call it. His friend told me that Jay is not a player and doesn't just want a fling, so there's that to factor in, which I would say is very positive. Jay does not come across as someone just wanting sex. But we live apart, and it's easiest if he visits me and spends the night. Plus, I am enjoying that, so what's wrong with spending the night?
We did go out to dinner the other night, and the other time he visited we ate out as well. We also talk a lot about a lot of different things, when he does visit. It's substantive conversation.