On top of that, my ex husband tried to reach me by phone twice last night. So I asked him this morning what is up, and it's more of the same. Now he wants to pre-pay me our anticipated tax refund to help me out. Why is he constantly trying to get at me with money???? He knows I am at a disadvantage right now and I know it's sheer manipulation. But how tied to money does he think I am truly am? Mom is covering me, and I don't need or want his help. All that will do is make me beholden to him.... I know the drill.