I just wanna say, how can you get mad at people implying your morals might be a little loose for sleeping with him so soon, then take some moral high ground for his own personal preferences? Isnt that being a hypocrite? You can do what you want, but he cant do what he wants? You call it a deal-breaker, but it just seems controlling to me. It's not fair. And it doesn't seem wise. Thinking you can interfere between a man and his porn - he will just lie to you, and think less of you.