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Originally Posted by divine1966
I don’t see it as being desperate or pushing for commitment. Some things are very important for some people. It’s ok to ask early on. I know people who wasted many months dating someone who: did or didn’t want children, wanted potential spouse to convert to their faith, wanted or didn’t want to relocate etc I’d not think anyone was pushing for commitment if they asked me these questions up front.
Plus those aren’t even commitment questions. Dude talks about strip bars. He brought it up first
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Divine, I agree with you. Since these are dealbreakers for me, I'd rather bring it up directly with him sooner than later, and before I've committed myself to a more serious relationship with him. I don't see that as desperate or too pushy... I see it as being smart about my own standards.