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Originally Posted by ArtleyWilkins
Perhaps, but Hope is the one who has said she realizes she was falling too fast, falling too fast for this guy, even before this topic came up. I’m not particularly saying anything she (and others) haven’t already said in previous comments in her threads.
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True. I just have a different view on this. If she tends to fall for people too fast before she even gets to know them, then it’s even more important to ask questions very soon and find out if their values are even aligned. She might even stop falling for people that fast if she finds out who they are right away. And that would include asking questions
Yes others also said it’s better not to ask questions because it will scare a guy. I see it completely differently. If the goal is to keep a guy no matter who he is, then sure it’s better to be quiet. But if the goal is to find the right person, then asking questions is the way to go imho