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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Divine, I agree with you. Since these are dealbreakers for me, I'd rather bring it up directly with him sooner than later, and before I've committed myself to a more serious relationship with him. I don't see that as desperate or too pushy... I see it as being smart about my own standards.
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Exactly. You aren’t asking when he plans to propose.
Finding out if a man routinely attends and spends money in the venues where women are exploited, trafficked, coerced, forced, controlled by pimps and kept drugged (some strippers are underage) etc is finding out his fundamental values. You have rights to know who he is on a deeper level. It’s not desperate at all.