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He also is toying with moving to the Caribbean, which will make this a moot point if he does. He tells me he is semi serious about it, so there's a distinct possibility he may not move at all.
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This would bother me. There is a type of person who is unable/unwilling to commit. I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who is "toying with" one day deciding to move to the Caribbean without me. To me, it would mean that this person is not actually an adult in the relationship. Even if they told me they weren't going, doubt would always be in the back of my mind: Can I trust this person? Not that they are overtly lying, necessarily, but maybe, even probably, they aren't capable of knowing the answer.