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Originally Posted by Bill3
This would bother me. There is a type of person who is unable/unwilling to commit. I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who is "toying with" one day deciding to move to the Caribbean without me. To me, it would mean that this person is not actually an adult in the relationship. Even if they told me they weren't going, doubt would always be in the back of my mind: Can I trust this person? Not that they are overtly lying, necessarily, but maybe, even probably, they aren't capable of knowing the answer.
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Yes for me it’s not even as much about lies but about lack of stability. At 49 I’d want a man to have a career, place to live and specific life plans. If he wants to move to a different country, does he have plans to work there or do what? Live where? He has 11 year old in the US and he’s moving to a different country? That’s all unusual and not very grown up.