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Originally Posted by Bill3
This would bother me. There is a type of person who is unable/unwilling to commit. I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who is "toying with" one day deciding to move to the Caribbean without me. To me, it would mean that this person is not actually an adult in the relationship. Even if they told me they weren't going, doubt would always be in the back of my mind: Can I trust this person? Not that they are overtly lying, necessarily, but maybe, even probably, they aren't capable of knowing the answer.
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I don't think his plans are totally solo... I think he would be open to someone moving with him to the Caribbean, if it were that serious and committed.
I don't view him as someone unwilling to commit. He was married for 10 years, and has had several longer-term relationships with not too many sexual partners.
I am not too too concerned about him moving right now. But if he decides to move all of a sudden and after his sailing trip, then all of this is moot. I have a feeling he's not going to move.