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Default Mar 25, 2023 at 02:21 PM
 
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Yes for me it’s not even as much about lies but about lack of stability. At 49 I’d want a man to have a career, place to live and specific life plans. If he wants to move to a different country, does he have plans to work there or do what? Live where? He has 11 year old in the US and he’s moving to a different country? That’s all unusual and not very grown up.
The only thing that bothers me about this is his son... how often can he see his son if he moves to the Caribbean? And he seems to be doing just fine, making ends meet on his own. He was in the same job for 20 years, which shows stability. His life is also in a transitional place right now - same with me.

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