|
Mar 25, 2023, 06:00 PM
|
 |
Super Moderator Community Support Team Community Liaison
Chat Leader
|
|
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Northeast USA New England
Posts: 18,363
|
|
Hi @UpsetSpouse000 - welcome to MSF. I am sorry you are in a relationship where your husband expects you to be perfect. It must be a lot of strain on you. The part about locking your credit card sounds over the top beyond OCD, they seem to be aiming to control everything. How do you feel about that?
A stay at home wife can expect some form of allowance or monetary compensation for all their efforts. If he is keeping all the money and he controls everything including your credit card, where does that leave you? You sound happiest when he goes away for a day except there is the constant anxiety he may be displeased. I am not sure where to go, but you sound like you are always nervous anticipating his reaction.
Hope you get the support you are looking for. @CANDC
__________________
Super Moderator
Community Support Team
"Things Take Time"
|