Wow. Just logged in and found your new thread and it is humming!

It certainly sounds reasonable to discuss his views and habits regarding porn and strip clubs.
I do have to weigh in on the mention of porn as a "crime scene" - I doubt most of the mainstream porn sites would risk posting criminal activity because their sites would be shut down for police investigation, losing them $$$. I would be interested in seeing the article you reference. I've read several life stories of women in porn, and it pays well enough that there will never be a shortage of women who will do it. That said, many women in the sex trades come from troubled childhoods including sexual and physical abuse, rape and incest. These are not nice industries and most porn is not a nice thing. I wrote an article about the portrayal of women in porn for a friend's thesis project. In a word: subjugation.
That said, a whopping number of men view porn regularly. A quick Google search gives figures from 42 percent to 80 percent of men have looked at it in the past week. I'm not sure guys these days ever self-pleasure without it. (?) Young guys anyway.
Good luck with the discussion.