I suspect that my husband was lying to me and secretly using porn. We stopped having sex, for the most part. And he would spend long periods of time in the bathroom with his phone or iPad. I grew to be very resentful of the sexual neglect - I would bring it up to him as being an issue, when weeks would go by without sex. I would bring up the fact that he was constantly buried in his phone, 24/7, and that we weren't having sex, and he would become very defensive over this and would flip it all around on me by telling me, well I'm only on my phone when you're on your computer. But this wasn't true. He was always on his phone, and in the bathroom too.

I was neglected sexually, and I am still a very sexual person at the age of 52. I need and want sex more than 1-2 times per month, which is what we had. I want sex a few times a week!!! ARGH. He was SO maddening in SO many ways.

And I wouldn't put it past him to have lied to me about using porn.