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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Thank you.... 
I want the 20-58% of men who don't watch porn. I was aware of the fact that a large portion of men do watch porn... porn is one of the highest searched search terms on Google each month globally.
I am so dead set against it, that I cannot bring myself to date anyone who watches it while we are together in a committed relationship.
I do have some flexibility within me though around this topic. If a guy is single and uses it to self pleasure, then I have far less of a problem with it because I do see it as a tool for that, a tool which makes it far easier... and when a man is single, well, he doesn't have a partner to do those things for him.
BUT, when a man is in a committed, loving relationship, that's where I draw the line.
I've also read articles about how damaging porn can be to a committed couple. So there are articles that back up my stance on it being damaging. |
Yes it’s very damaging for couples sex life. Many can’t even have normal relationship because of it.
But in a long run it doesn’t even matter if porn is great and strip clubs are awesome. Wanting or not wanting a particular kind of partner doesn’t make one controlling or unreasonable. I wouldn’t date or marry men who smoke weed. It’s pointless to argue that it’s legal and very good for you. I don’t care if it’s the best thing ever. And it doesn’t mean I want to control who smokes weed. Lol they are free to smoke all day every day! They just aren’t going to be my partners! No one is obligated to date anyone.
Of course it’s harder to find out if they watch porn than other things but usually if they lie about that, they lie about other things. And as we get older it should be easier to spot liars. Just have to pay close attention