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Originally Posted by divine1966
Yes that’s why we all have different deal breakers. And ones aren’t better than others. Just different.
Yes you have your own personal expectations and standards and have rights to pursue someone according to those.
Like weed for you it’s a non issue. For me I don’t want it in my life. Different deal breaker
But I am married to someone who has different political views than mine. Yes it’s annoying at times but not a deal breaker. I can live with it. As long as it’s not in my face. But I know people who’d not marry someone whose political views differ. They have a different deal breaker. We also have different religious beliefs. It’s a non issue as we respect each others faith, and honor both traditions. I know people for whom different faith is a deal breaker. And it’s perfectly fine! But I have many deal breakers that are non issues for others. And it’s just fine!
We are all different! That’s the beauty of it.
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This is very important and I am SO glad you brought it up! People have various dealbreakers and tolerance levels, which differ and are very subjective and individual. Weed is not a dealbreaker for me, but addictions are.
Political and religious views? It just depends for me. Jay is more conservative politically and is Republican, while I am liberal and a Democrat. I am not yet sure if this is a problem or not.... only time will tell, along with all my other questions.