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Old Mar 26, 2023, 08:33 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
This was a huge issue to have had in your marriage. I’m sure you must have had conversations around why he preferred himself rather than connect with you and match libidos.
We never talked about it - he would get SO defensive every time I mentioned it that I would shy away from the convo. Then, when I complained about not having enough sex, he would say we'll work on that, but then would just continue neglecting me.

We never even had spontaneous makeout sessions.. the only time we really made out was with sex, which was infrequent. I love making out and I love doing it frequently. I need a partner who is just as sexually expressive as I am. I want more than just a kiss goodbye in the morning. That's not enough for me.
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