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Originally Posted by divine1966
It could be porn but could be excessive smoking too. I heard that people who are perpetually stoned lose interest in sex and often can’t engage in sexual activity. I think it was maybe a combination of things with your ex. He is sure a piece of work
I can’t believe it he keeps offering money. It’s supcious how he even has all this money
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Yeah, it could be the weed. I also suspect that it was yet another way to exert control over the relationship AND over me. He knew, multiple times over, that I wanted and needed more intimacy. But it was always for one reason or another that we couldn't, even when we planned on it... too much stress, too tired, he's in pain, or there's too much going on.... there was always a reason.
I think he may have received his inheritance money, since the latest was he wanted to offer me $2,000. I declined, even though later he told me a portion would be for splitting the cost of the chair. My mom and I talked at length about this. IF I continue to accept money from him, I will be beholden to him and obligated to remain in touch.
We had already agreed that he will give me more of our refund money, if we get a tax refund this year..... that will cover the cost of the chair.