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Old Mar 28, 2023, 05:19 AM
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Originally Posted by Samicat View Post
I agree. Trust your instinct. You can tell him about your father when you're ready (and I'm so sorry to hear he abused you). Parents leave us with so much baggage.

Thank you.

I think I will hold off on telling him much about my father. That's my gut feeling and I will stick with it. I don't want to confide too much in this guy yet, before true trust is established, and that will take time to develop, if we keep seeing each other.
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