I had forgotten this part, but in the car ride out of state the other day with Jay and his buddy, Jay had made a couple of snarky comments towards me that I didn't appreciate. It could have been an attempt at sarcastic humor, and I think these comments were an attempt at humor. I live in an area where sarcastic comments run amuck... sarcasm is very much a part of the culture here, and he is from my state originally.
Nonetheless, I am going to watch out for this behavior.... if it becomes a pattern, then he may not be longer-term for me. I am on alert. These comments did hurt my feelings, they took me aback somewhat, and made me feel like he was trying to make a dig at me. I didn't like it. Typically, I am not a fan of sarcastic humor when it is directed at me as a humorous dig. I don't appreciate that kind of humor.