What you described happening at other forums sounds distressing. I'm sorry that happened to you. It doesn't sound fair.

I've never seen that kind of behaviour from a mod in almost 4 years of being here. From what I've seen, no one gets banned as punishment or because a mod or other member doesn't like them. Banning appears to happen to protect other members from unacceptable behaviour of a member, not to punish that member. Everyone, including you, has a right to feel safe on this forum.

You seem to have a genuine desire to do the right thing so you don't get banned. And that is to be commended.