He’s not leaving you anything and he’s not dying. It’s more of the same. Game to keep you confused and unbalanced and helpless. In one sentence he’s suicidal but then asking you to come hang out on the weekend. He thinks you’ll keep falling for it.

He knows he has control over you. You aren’t even together and he still controls you. You are now worried about him and speculating about his will. And worry about how you’ll run into him at concerts (why does it even matter?). So much mental energy goes to figure out what to do about your ex like you have nothing else to do.

And now you are afraid to go against his wishes. Why? What do you mean “you cannot”. Yes you can. He threatens suicide. All bets are off. Time to get family involved. What can he do to you? He has such unnatural hold over you.