I do get all of everyone's points here. I DID tell him it's not healthy for us to be in close communication. I told him this the other day, also saying we both need to move on. I also think that he has told his brother he feels suicidal because he told me he did. Perhaps he did tell him, and perhaps he didn't. I do think he still sees his therapist. He's told me things that the therapist has said to him.

I will figure out a way to stop the communications. I may have to block him again.