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Originally Posted by divine1966
I think it’s the same why people stay in bad marriages. It’s hard for outsiders to understand. They must be getting something out of it.
It sounds quite strange that this grown up person wants to fully depend on others and wouldn’t even get a part time job but depending on others is easier than taking care of oneself. Her family and friends enable her by supporting her.
She perfected her game of helplessness. Some people live like this their whole life. Acting helpless and relying on others. Sad life if you ask me. But if others fall for it, not much we can do
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She is on SSI & gets $600 a month. She kept saying she’s going to get a job, but then she has hardly apied any any place except for two maybe.
She has no car & depends on her mom fir rides. She doesn’t know hiw to apply for jobs online either. She told us that her mom doesn’t want her to work which is odd.
Her mom gives her money too. I saw it with my oen eyes. She’s a liar. It’s obvious thst she doesn’t want to work snd maybe can’t eork, but why lie about that? It’s obvious rhat she’s lying.
I think thst her parents spoil her to desth. Ironically her dad threatened to kick her out of the house if she quit her job at Safeway over 13 years ago. She sais she was severely bullied there be everyone, stalked, and harassed by the customers too.
I think thst she made up a bunch of stuff to get sympathy & attention from us & other people.
She seems to nrrd a lot of attention . Everything is always about her. She repeats the same stories like a broken record sll the time. She’s very irritsting.
She acts like a dumb child. I should’ve ditched her months ago. She never once asked my friend & I how we’re doing.
She had nothing bit troubke with orher friends & she blamed everyone bit herself for things. They used her, were mean, bad, etc.
I don’t understand why my friend still wants to associate with her it deems like as she doesn’t want to talk about her anymore. She said she has severe mental health issues. There is no way she could be that clueless unless she’s mentally challenged.