You're human. You're in a tough place right now being unemployed and not knowing if the new relationship is going to happen.


But now you need to decide if this is a 1-time thing, and you need to re-draw your boundaries extra strong if it is.


I personally don't think you need to reveal this to your current bf, at least not at this time, if it's a 1-time thing. That's my opinion. You can tell him later when you know if it's going to turn into love. If it doesn't work out there's no need for him to know.


But only if it's a 1-time thing. You are human. But this can't happen again if you aren't going to get back with him. Because I guarantee HE thinks you are back together now.


I'm not sure what implications this might have for your divorce. Again if it's 1 time I would think it might get chalked up to being a mistake.