Thanks everyone. I’m not going tell Jay because we’re not committed. It’s only been a few weeks of hanging out. We’re not a couple and we’re not in a relationship. I don’t see the point in telling him. It is/was a 1 time thing. Well this is the second time realistically but I must nip it in the bud now with my ex. I’m sure he’s hopeful. I can’t lead him on so I must tell him that’s the last time.