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Old Apr 03, 2023, 05:28 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I find it interesting that lack of sex was an issue in your marriage (your husband wasn’t very willing), but now when separated he seems to all ready to go any time you call! I wonder if it’s manipulation now and if you get together, amount of sex will go downhill again.

Oh yeah if you aren’t a couple and it’s all casual, no need to tell him. I misunderstood that things are getting serious and you are interested in a serious way.
I believe that yes, hypothetically speaking, IF we got back together the sex would be lacking again in time and I would be neglected all over again, in time. He won't change.

About Jay.... I still need to find out where he stands now on strip clubs and the subject of porn.... which will make or break this for me. And he could move, so everything is really up in the air.
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