Why do you think people judge you? Or being unsupportive on not compassionate?

Many of us, if not all have been in very very difficult situations, having troubles with paying bills, moving, looking for jobs, having no place to live, having trouble supporting our kids, dealing with awful relationships etc very few have cushy lives. No one is judging anyone.

People have been invested in your situations for years with all kind of support and suggestions and being there for you with personal and work troubles. I am not sure what exact compassionate support you seek that’s different from you’ve been already getting.

You’ve been in abusive marriage and in abusive relationships repeatedly. Do you want people to support that? To encourage it? Like it’s hard to say “awe your abusive ex cuddled you. How great. You need more of that abuser in your life.”

Do you just want hugs?

I’ve not seen a single judgmental or unsupportive comment. You don’t have to agree with advice given or it might not always 100% what you want to hear (how does anyone even know what you want to hear?), but you can’t say people aren’t supportive.

Every time you ask for suggestions in any aspects of your life, there is an outpouring of ideas. People are consistently there for you no matter what situation you are dealing with.