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nonightowl · Apr 05, 2023 at 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by jesyka

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They probably needed you for attention & validation. I know that I was.

Regarding the last friend, she didn’t realize how much she was hurting yiu with her comments it seems like. Did you ever tell her to not mention stuff that triggers you? Next time, it’d be a good idea to set boundaries.

It’s nice to meet another feline in the same boat btw.

I don't know what they needed me for but they don't need me now. And I don't need them.

In your previous post you said you think women are jealous of you. Can I ask how come?

Oh yeah I definitely told the last "friend" how hurtful it is to hear about her warm, fuzzy time with her mom. And the behavior continued.

I'm always setting boundaries but people cross them or attempt to cross them.

If you started a thread about something similar, please post the link and I'll see if I have any 2 cents.

Us felines are usually solitary creatures, except for lions.