Your former ‘friends’ probably kept you around to get attention & validation from you. Did you provide that for them?

As for why I think that some people are jealous of me, I think that they can’t stand the fact that I get to travel & have a fairly comfortable life without having to work fir a living like they di. Even the ones who couldn’t work were stuck at home having to take care of a demanding elderly parent they couldn’t stand.

But they couldn’t bring themselves to put them in a nursing home. They probably saw me as being spoiled & undeserving of everything I have since I don’t need to work to live.

I have begore. I’m physically & mentally disabled niw. They don’t take my disabilities seriously though. One former aquaintence said that I wouldn’t be able to get out of bef if I really had fibromyalgia as this other lady she knew was bed ridden. Of course, she was another bitter jealous perdon who resented me as she was barely getting by & living in a small apartment with no a/c. I live in a house. It’s a fixer upper, but it’s still a house in a good neighborhood.

Maybe it’s my looks too? but that’s a huge maybe as I’m nowhere close to looking really gorgeous like Cindy Crawford or JLo. I’m overweight too.

Then there’s the fact that I’m marriedx. The women who seem to tesent me the most are always the singke ones or those that just have boyfriends.

I’m sure thst they wish thst they were married too. A few of them were obsessed with finding a guy to marry them.

Most of them had to rely on themselves & no one else most of the time. Some of them were getting hrlp from their parents. Some still are living with their parents too.

I also dress nice. Even one former make friend told me that I’m lucky that my husband gives me money even though he’s financially controlling. My name has bern off the joint account since some low life scammer cashed a check for $950 back in November of last year. He blames me for what happened for msiling the checks the ‘wrong’ way.

I don’t know if he’ll ever add me back on as he’s threatened to rake me off it fir years just for withdrawing small amounts of money without his consent. He’s a control freak.

He told me that his g.f got nothing for Chryas he had nothingto give her. He resented the fact that I was given cash for Christmas.

So there you go. I’m hated for having things they don’t despite being financially controlled & having to live woth no dental, vision or medical insurance for now, lol.