((RD)) this behavior is exactly what I described in my last posts this behavior is showing you an example of what I described and had to learn about myself.

It’s understandable that you are angry yet this anger is not going to help other than give you the energy to move forward in a way that is best for you and your children. Your wife is not going to see how her alcohol abuse is hurting others instead she will only see her own needs which is what you have been seeing for a while and NOW your children deserve a presence that sees their genuine hurt.

You had been coming from a caring concerned place, and your wife was not which is the nature of that disease due to how if affects the brain. Individuals know and can act like they care but they do not feel it due to how their brain is being affected. That’s why it has so many narcissistic behavior patterns.