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nonightowl · Apr 06, 2023 at 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by jesyka

I did walk away from these toxic women. I should’ve ran from them the moment I met them. I stupidly gave them all the benefit of the doubt though. Never again!

I gave people the benefit of the doubt too. Because of the last 3 years and the isolation for the first two at least, my bs meter is pretty rusty. When you're not around people or even talking to them much, you get out of practice. Only good thing, if I can call it that, is that these recent experiences made me more aware of what to watch out for. Still not everyone is the same about that.

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Originally Posted by jesyka

It’s both, they’re all jealous women who suck, lol! They’re boring as hell too! lol. I’m 50 years old now. I’m to old for this b.s

I feel the same way that you do. I’ll actually tell the next person, look, I can’t be friends with selfish people, so I gotta go now, bye! LoL! I don’t care about hurting their feelings when they obviously don’t care about mine, lol!

Oh, I got the impression from how those women talk about boyfriends, clothes, etc. that they are MUCH younger, as well as you!

But YOU are much more mature than them, even if you were a 20-something.

That being said I know not all 20-somethings are immature and all older people ARE mature. I've been around both and also the opposites.

I was about to ask just how old these women are, as it reminds me of junior high.

Aren't they ADULTS??!!!!

I'm definitely too old for this and right now I'm so disgusted with the human species. Animals DO make much better friends or companions. They love you no matter what.

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Originally Posted by willowtigger

Some people are all "me me me me ME i am the most important person in the universe" and cant be happy for others, best to avoid those types

This is SO true.

Also we live in such an individualistic culture too. What one wants, what one chooses to do, what one prefers or needs, etc.