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Originally Posted by nonightowl
Thanks, whew! I thought I'm seeing things, lol.
You're right in that when people treat someone that way, they do not like or respect them. Real friendship isn't that at all.
I do think that when they say "It's not you, it's them", it's true, only in the sense that when someone ghosts a person, it is about THEIR immaturity or lack of courage or communication skills or whatnot. It's also that they don't care enough about the other person to be honest and choosing to ghost instead.
It's true everyone has stuff on their plate, but I agree with you that a REAL friend MAKES time for you. That bs about "I've been busy" is just that, bs. They CAN take the time for you and they would, even if to SAY it's been crazy but they are still thinking about you and wanting to check in.
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I agree with everything that you said. Also, real friends don’t lie & b.s you & sat that they ‘thinking of you ‘ and would love to see your vacation pics’ & then block you once you only post a few if them up! Wth?
That is cruel, immature & rude behavior. Someone told me that this sick woman wanted me to text her & ask her what happened to feel like she’s powerful & in control of things.
I should’ve stopped talking her months ago as all she ever did was talk about herself,