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Old Apr 06, 2023, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted by jesyka View Post

Weird! I tend to attract these nasty selfish types for some reason! I don’t understand how other people cant see what they did was wrong & just brushed it off to personality differences like blocking someone for sharing pics is no big deal. I doubt they’d feel the same way if this happened to them.
Me too. Also I think our culture gaslights people a lot and make them feel it's THEIR fault for ANYTHING BAD: You lost your job, your car broke down, your doctor didn't call back, your sink backed up, etc. There's so much emphasis on individual responsibility, that bad things happen due to bad choices or judgement. And if people don't see how wrong that is, they are truly warped!

It's among the lines of how it seems so acceptable to ghost people these days. The behavior is as old as the human species itself, though the word wasn't used until the last 5 years? 10? We used to say "blow someone off".

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