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Apr 06, 2023, 01:34 PM
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Desert Kitty hates titles
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Location: TARDIS
Posts: 12,526
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Originally Posted by jesyka
Sorry to hear about what happened to you? Do you mind telling me what your similar experiences been like? Did you get any bad vibes from these people like I did but ignore your gut feeling at first? I did.
This site is great. Everyone is so supportive, kind, understanding, helpful, wise, honest and respectful of sny differences unlike the rest of the internet. It’s great that there are no trolls or bullies on here too.
Anyways, it is immature jr. high behavior m. I should’ve known better thsn to associate with her after she kept on talking sboit h.s & people from h.s. Obviously her best days are behind her now, lol.
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Too painful to write in detail; they aren't worth the time and effort. But I will just write this:
I didn't get exactly "bad vibes" from the young woman who was so enthusiastic about meeting me, even helping me pick out a smartphone and going with me to the store! But I wondered why she was being so giving and nice, having just met me. People don't usually do that, so I wondered about ulterior motives. So my gut warned me but I told myself not to be so cynical, that there ARE nice people out there. That's why I think it was some kind of experiment, to see how far it would go.
She once wore these socks that said "bad b i t c h" on them and now I see it wasn't a joke or in fun, it's true!
I wonder if men treat other men this way. We know women are "catty" and they stab you in the back. But a man will stab you in the front, meaning you know where you stand with them. If he doesn't like you, you know he doesn't like you. No pretense of being your friend. Of course it's not ALL men or women, just generalizations.
I can't say that everyone is supportive on here. Like in real life, it's hit and miss---no matter what site or forum.
Seems our posts overlap, as I hit preview and saw more posts from you.
I had problems with trolls on sites that merely are for posting comments about some unknown number calling!  The so-called moderators WERE the trolls, deleting people's legit comments or ridiculing their comments. I abandoned the site in August last year. I now go where my posts don't get deleted.
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